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It is important to be able to help Mormons think clearly about church and help them exercise patience and understanding as Christians turn out to be sinners saved by grace and not "saints" bound for godhood. These are things I would want to say to a former Mormon struggling to settle down in church life and ministry work.
Fellowship
Firstly, it is essential that a Christian should be in fellowship
with other Christians in a church. The best definition of church
I have ever come across is "the people of God, gathered around
the Word of God, ready to do the will of God". This is not the
same as being gathered around a specific purpose. When a group
of Christians gather together to do a particular work, for instance
reaching out to the homeless, young people, or even Mormons, that
is not the church. It is a part of the church in action doing
the will of God but the church is bigger than that. I know that
some are fond of quoting Matthew 18:20, but Jesus did not say,
"Where two or three come together in my name, there is my church".
He said, "Where two or three come together
in my name, there am I with them". Of course, this promise
is very important because Christians often gather for all sorts
of purposes. But church means more than these gatherings.
The people of God identify themselves by the very act of gathering
and sharing the love of Christ with each other. Jesus said,
"By this all men will know that you are my disciples, if you love
one another" (John 13:35). Now I know from experience that
some people are easier to love than others, even in the church
(perhaps especially in the church?). But Paul tells us that "love
is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast,
it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is
not angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight
in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always
trusts, always hopes, always perseveres" (1 Corinthians 13:4-7).
It seems to me that love is a tough thing to do and so when we
see the church being less than it should be that is when we should
remember Paul's words. "Christ loved the
church and gave himself up for her" (Ephesians 5:25), and
so it is wrong-headed to give up the church for Christ because
we are frustrated with it. Trust me, I have been sorely tempted
sometimes but I have seen where that road leads and have no intention
of travelling that way.
Obedience
When the people of God gather, it is around Gods Word. That means
some form of leadership and teaching. The early church "devoted
themselves to the apostle's teaching and to fellowship, to the
breaking of bread and to prayer" (Acts 2:42). I know some
believe in apostles today but for most Christians we have in place
of apostles pastors, ministers, or priests, depending on which
denomination you are part of. The apostle's teaching is the same
as it ever was, and one of the advantages of being together and
having leaders is that we can encourage each other to be true
to that teaching. Checks and balances are so important to the
church. Fellowship is the sharing of all these things and encouraging
one another in them, breaking bread is commanded by Jesus himself,
as you know, and prayer is for each other and for the wider world,
for the church abroad, and for the work of the church in reaching
the lost. In other words, so much of church is not about me but
about others.
Ministry
The people of God cannot do the will of God unless they know what is that will, and where they fit into the bigger picture. Now, if my ministry is to Mormons, then I need to see where that fits in with what others are doing. I cannot be all things to my Mormon friends, and so I must have the resources of the wider church to help me. Those resources are sometimes very modest, but I must use what is there. One of the mistakes we can make is looking at the shortcomings of the church and forgetting that it is the Spirit of God who convicts us of sin and convinces us of the message. The mistake Mormons make is in thinking that the church should always impress people by its imposing presence. "Look at our temples, our organisation, our growth" they say. Then someone in a modest meeting hall somewhere hears the Spirit whisper and becomes a Christian. I am convinced that sometimes people become Christians in spite of the church and not because of it.
Growth
If I am wise then I will first find a place where I can practice the things I mentioned above for myself, and then I will have something, however modest, into which I can introduce my Mormon friends. If I have nothing to offer them then I had better leave them where they are. I also need to be somewhere where I can simply be a Christian. You know, people sometimes think that we spend most of our time speaking to Mormons, but the truth is we spend most of our time living our lives as Christians as best we can, growing in the things of God. It is this life that feeds and informs our witnessing, writing, and apologetics work. We don't witness to Mormons because we used to be Mormons and have found out that is wrong. We witness to Mormons because we are Christians and know that it is right before God to be a Christian. The difference is very important.
Perseverence
Now to some objections someone might have to what I am saying.
It is hard to find a "good" church. Well, it depends on
how you define "good". If a church matches the picture of Acts
2:42 then I feel you should be there. If God's word is being taught;
if bread is broken (and taken seriously); if prayer is taking
place and fellowship is available then join. Now, it may be that
secondary issues bother you. Maybe the prayer meetings are not
well attended. Well, if you go that will be one more. Maybe worship
and fellowship isn't exciting. Maybe after you have been there
for a while you will meet others who feel the same way. Perhaps
you can encourage each other to help make a difference. It is
very important to realise that being in a church is like being
in a family. Much of the time there is nothing especially outstanding
in the experience, but there is the security, the love and the
opportunity to grow. Occasionally in a family there are special
events, like birthdays, anniversaries, outings and surprises.
Because of the influence of some parts of the charismatic church
some Christians have been misled into thinking that every day
should be a birthday. This leaves a lot of Christians disappointed
because their expectations are unrealistic.
People don't understand my witnessing to Mormons. Maybe
people need to learn to trust you in that. And how can they do
that if you are not patient with them and show yourself trustworthy?
What picture do people have of you? When we became Christians
we did nothing with Mormons for two or three years. We simply
established ourselves as Christians. Even when we started ministry
work it was low key, and grew slowly. And we always spoke to our
leaders about what we were doing. I feel that because we applied
ourselves to the apostles' teaching, we fellowshipped, broke bread
with other Christians and prayed with them they grew to trust
us. Now no one who knows us questions what we do.
But the Mormon Church has so much going for it, and the Christian
Church is so - disappointing.
You need to decide who you are and where you should be. Are you
an ex-Mormon who is always looking over his shoulder at what he
has had to leave behind? Or are you a Christian who is determined
to serve the church Christ gave himself for? Now I trust that
you have no doctrinal problems and that you embrace fully the
good news of Jesus Christ. But I wonder if you nevertheless regret
that Christians can't be more like Mormons anyway. That you perhaps
feel that believing the truth like a Christian and living the
life like a Mormon would give you the best of both worlds. It
doesn't work that way. Having the feel-good lifestyle of Mormonism
with the Ensign magazine, a clear structure and organisation,
missionary discussions and everyone seeming to follow the same
path, is nothing compared with having the challenging lifestyle
of Christianity, with the assurance of forgiveness, the fellowship
of the Spirit, the knowledge of Christ, and the challenge of getting
along with people who have an imperfect knowledge of truth but
a perfect assurance of salvation. Remember the words of Paul who
said, "Whatever was to my profit I now
consider loss for the sake of Christ. What is more I consider
everything a loss compared to the surpassing greatness of knowing
Christ Jesus my Lord, for whose sake I have lost all things. I
consider them rubbish that I may gain Christ and be found in him."
(Php 3:7-9)
We can surround ourselves with the trappings of this world in order to reassure ourselves of our place in the next. The buildings in which we meet, the books we read, the programmes we devise, the friends who agree with us, the foes who oppose. But I have learned that all these can be lost and what then? I would only remind you that God is good, Jesus is Lord and salvation is found in none other. Not a book, no matter how seemingly inspired; not a man, no matter how apparently inspiring; not an institution, no matter how admirable and impressive, nor a system of religion, no matter how comforting and reassuring. It cannot be earned, no matter how hard we try, and once gained, it cannot be lost because it was not you who won it, but Christ. This is why it is truly a pearl of great price. When all else is stripped away and all you have is Christ then you have everything.
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